It can start with something so simple.
Just two people standing in line,
Paying for groceries, side by side.
A glance and just half of a smile
And then the journey it starts.
An intricate dance through the years
A million more laughs and a sprinkling of tears.
And then in the blink of an eye,
It’s all over and together we lie.
It could have been luck, merely by chance,
But I guess we will never know if magic did spark
Because of that sideways glance.
I really do believe that everything is written out in the stars, our journeys already mapped out before we are even born. And when it comes to love it is no difference. We are put in the queue in the supermarket at the right time so that we can be there at exactly the same moment as the love of our life. I don’t think it’s an accident that they are there.
I sometimes find it funny though, that something as monumental as a lifetime of memories built together can rest on something as simple as whether we bought our bread and milk at the right time and in the right store.
So often we can be with somebody for decades and when we look back at that first meeting we realise how easy it could have been to miss that moment altogether.
And it really does pass in the blink of an eye. One moment you are twenty and making eyes at somebody in the next line and the next thing you realise you have grandchildren and you’re both slipping away from this earth.
I think it’s Christmas and New Year that makes me think this way. Something new could be beginning in the next twelve months and it’s a lovely thought. But at the same time there will be people that we lose over the next year and with them a whole load of memories will vanish.
Make the most of the time you have with these people. Enjoy the dance, even when it’s a little tricky. And most importantly, make sure that 2020 is filled with memorable moments and strong relationships that are good for your soul.