sorry seems to be the hardest word

In the dark, deserted loneliness

Of the place we once called home,

You whispered several thousand words,

That all expressed how sorry that you were.

But when the day crept into view,

Those empty words began to scatter,

Like spiders when they scuttle

For the safety of the nooks and crannies.

It seems that when the world awakes

And sunlight streams in through the cracks,

You don’t seem so sure you’re wrong.

Or if you are, you’re too ashamed

To admit that what you did, it hurt.

Better to pretend it’s me

That should be shouldering the blame.

Ever been blamed for something that wasn’t your fault? Or had someone change their story when they start to look bad? I can sympathise and I know that it hurts somewhere deep inside.

The problem is that as humans we all have our own story to tell and our own truth. A lot of the time we don’t even know what the truth is because we can make ourselves believe the story we have made up in our own minds.

What really hurts is when someone admits that they have hurt you and say that they are sorry, then when they get out into the public domain, they change their story and say that you have hurt them. It makes you feel like you want to go out into the street and shout so that everybody knows YOUR truth.

But as much as it hurts, it’s always best to remain quiet and graceful. Mouthing off in the street (or on Facebook) doesn’t do anybody any favours and it particularly reflects badly on you. It’s so much better to sit quietly, smile and make everyone think that nothing is hurting you. It’s the hardest thing to do EVER, but it’s so worth it.

Remember that if you are on the receiving end of this, you know your truth. The person on the other side of the fence has their own story and their own reasons for their behaviour. Just try to smile and send love their way. Keep your dignity in tact, you’ll be grateful of it further down the line.

Much Love,

Rachel xx

17 thoughts on “sorry seems to be the hardest word

  1. Halbarbera

    Good advice!

    It’s okay!

    This is your chance to say you’re sorry.


    It’s never too late to say ‘I’m sorry.’ even for a mistake you made over 20 years ago.”

  2. Debbythechocoholic

    That is beautifully written 🙏🏼 Some people just have an ugly soul and will pretend to be the victim. They just need to hurt others in order to feel good. So no, don’t let them steal your sparkle!

  3. Joanna

    When something happens, we all have different points of view. Maybe I think that I am right, maybe you think that you are right. In the same time. Truth is relative, but you are right, people shouldn’t bash each other on social media or to other people.

  4. aisasami

    I had a event last year where someone said I something offensive to them, but I didn’t know if I did or not. I just apologize because it was best to do that than trying to make a dozen of excuses.

  5. Lily

    It takes swallowing pride to apologize. Once you stop being so prideful and push ego to the side it wont be so hard to apologize.

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