I stood staring at the rack of magazines,
Scuffing my toes on the dusty floor.
She’s a whore, whispered a man in my ear.
He pointed to the woman on the cover,
That poor, unfortunate soul
Who thought that all her dreams came true
When she found her fame.
She’s not, I sighed underneath my breath.
The man shrugged and sneered, moving on.
Everyone has an opinion
About that woman on the cover;
The one whose dream turned sour.
She may as well be fucking Minnie Mouse,
A character to entertain us when we’re bored,
No longer human in our eyes.
But underneath she’s slowly dying,
And when we’ve snuffed that final little ember,
We’ll all cry out that life’s unfair
And warn that nastiness can kill.
But by tomorrow someone else will be fair game,
Another girl, another circumstance,
But a story that always ends the same.
There was some very sad news in the UK today as it was reported that Caroline Flack took her own life. Caroline was hugely successful but hit some hard times when there was an altercation with her boyfriend just before Christmas. She was arrested and so the press went to town with her.
The story is so sad because she was such a talented lady and it was the press and trolls on social media that have evidently pushed her. It’s just really opened my eyes to the fact that no matter where you are in your life, you are still open to the same pain as anyone else.
While I was drinking I genuinely thought that my pain was greater than anyone else’s and when I got rich or famous that pain would just go away. Now that I’m a little more aware of what is going on around me I can see that this couldn’t be further from the truth.
It was only the other day that I looked at the cover of one of these magazines and saw a picture of Caroline. My heart actually broke for her because I realised that her pain was greater than mine at the moment. That was quite a moment, and so I’m crushed to see how it has all ended.
It goes without saying that if you are struggling, talk to someone! Try and stay off social media because it drains the life out of humans. I hope that Caroline stays in our thoughts for a long time so that we don’t move onto the next girl (or guy) in a matter of weeks. Things need to change, and sharpish!