It’s like an awful mirror,
Reflecting back the dreaded truth,
Exactly what I looked like
On that day when earth cracked open
And flames of hell were lapping at
My feet, burning soles
And warning me to change.
I just watched a scene on TV that made my toes curl. It depicted a woman being spoken to in a room, and she is alone with a HR person. It becomes apparent pretty quickly that she is an alcoholic and she is in the room because she has done something wrong.
While I was drinking I kept finding myself in that room and wondering why I was there again. I genuinely thought that the world was conspiring against me and it had nothing to do with my behaviour.
And the funny thing is, since I stopped drinking five years ago, I’ve not found myself in one of those situations. Sure, things have gone wrong at work, but they have not spiraled in the way that they used to.
The thing that pushed me to write this wasn’t to talk about how horrible that time was, but to bring up how uncomfortable it is to watch it played back on screen. It was horrible to see it in all its cringey detail.
I think that sometimes we need to be reminded of our errors and feel all that discomfort as a way to remind us not to go back. However, that was a scarily accurate representation of what happened in that final meeting that nearly killed me… and reliving your most shameful moment is never a pleasant experience.
One thought on “seeing my myself on screen”
We do learn from our experiences – including our most embarrassing and cringe-worthy ones. And looking back on them can give us a sense of accomplishment (‘I’m not that person now’) as well as an incentive to stay with a healthy life. But, yes, it can be awfully painful…