how to be more likable

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Have blonde hair, blue eyes

And teeth like little pearls,

Every time you smile your eyes light up,

You say the nicest things,

And nod your head with sympathy

At times that are just right.

Oh, and hug, whenever you can find the time.

I’m always interested in what it is that makes people likable. How do we connect with some people so strongly? And how can it happen so suddenly?

I don’t know about other people, but I can sometimes just glance at a person and I feel my heart flutter. I would love to know what it is that wires us to have these feelings.

And, have I ever missed an opportunity to have a friend or a partner because I have just walked on past? I think it would be lovely to be able to just stop in the street and say hi to a stranger so that we don’t miss out on those connections.

But that would probably be a bit weird.

Much Love

Rachel xx

One thought on “how to be more likable

  1. Margot Kinberg

    It is fascinating what makes people appealing to others. And it’s different for everyone. For some people, a smile is a warm welcome. For others, it’s off-putting. You just never know. But I do think that, in general, we’re drawn to people who seem welcoming, and who give off ‘I’m glad you’re here’ vibes.

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