I read a tweet today that said a perfect first date would be to go to a used book store and buy each other a book. I don’t think I could think of a better way of getting an indication whether you could get along with someone in one book.
Books are so personal and they hold so many memories and feelings. I don’t think that he would have to pick me a book that I liked; I would just care about the story behind it and why he thought that it would be a good book for me.
And what a beautiful way to spend an afternoon!
When I lived in Cape Town, we would often wander down Long Street where there were just endless vintage bookshops. I could spend the whole afternoon going in one after the other and finding quirky little books that you would never find anywhere else.
Follow that with a coffee and a slice of cake in one of the cafes that plays cool jazz music and has waiting staff that are pierced and tattooed and you have yourself a weirdly wonderful date. We wouldn’t even need to talk, we could just read the books that were chosen for us and let the pages do the talking.
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Oh, my, Rachel, that sounds like a perfect first date to me! I’ve always loved vintage and other independent bookshops, and exploring them is so much fun. Add to that jazz (which I very much enjoy) and a coffee, and I say you can’t go wrong.
The “weirdly wonderful date” sounds cool. As a Renaissance playwright might say, Go to.
Wow! Love this idea.
This is an awesome idea. In fact, hubby and I used to go to a bookstore when we were dating or just for a date night for us and browse the books. It was very relaxing. I’m going to suggest we do it again! Thanks for the reminder. 🙂
That’s so cute. Enjoy!
Thank you! It made me chuckle! 🙂
That sounds like a perfect first date! My boyfriend and I didn’t have a first date like this, but we do like used bookstores.
I just love the fact that you can stumble across a real gem without knowing what you are looking for. I genuinely find that exciting.
Ahhhh, what a great idea. I want to do this.
It’s cute, isn’t it?
This sounds nice…