
I see them in their uniforms
All the same, some quiet
And some in angry huffs
Stomping off when we say no.
But some days we can see
Them in another way
A stronger version
A bit more personality
And now we see each other as
A proper human being.
We had a two day Retreat and Pilgrimage with my school on Thursday and Friday. On the Thursday I was in school and we did lots of activities that made us think about ourselves and our faiths and our school community. And on Friday, we went to the cathedral in a nearby city.
I was lucky enough to have two days off timetable to spend with the kids as I am a Year 7 tutor. I see these kids every day in their school uniforms and I thought that I knew them well. It’s only been six weeks, but I could figure out who was naughty and who was quiet and who was clever.
However, seeing them all outside of the classroom was really eye opening and it was so nice to see more of the quieter ones. There was one girl who has always been so shy and all of a sudden I saw her as this really cool team leader. She could do street dance and she led her team to winning an engineering challenge.
Then I sat on the bus next to another quiet one for an hour. I thought it would be really awkward, but we ended up chatting away for the whole journey.
I am exhausted, but I’m so glad I had that experience with my tutor group. I’ve got such a soft spot for even the ones that I thought were a nightmare. I can’t wait to see them grow over the next five years, and to watch them turn into fabulous human beings.
Much Love
Rachel xx
Margot Kinberg
Oh, I agree, Rachel. It’s so nice to get to know students as real people, in all their complexity. We see sides of them that we never did before, and I really like that. It helps us to teach them better, too, I think.
patientandkindlove
Yes, I definitely feel like I can get people to step up and take the lead now that I know they are far more confident than I gave them credit for.
Greg Dennison
This is beautiful 🙂
patientandkindlove
thanks x